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The Wedding

November 24, 2005

Red Velvet Hell, Part Two

Two words, people: Betty Crocker.

But first, a bit of history:

Vivian Murphy gave me what is a recipe for "perfect Red Velvet Cake." The recipe goes back to when she was in high school back in the late 70's.  The original recipe was clipped from a newspaper and over the years, has been tweaked.  A family friend gave Vivian tips on improvement: add baking soda to the buttermilk instead of sifting it with the other dry ingredients; add the vanilla flavoring at the end instead of adding it to the cream mixture, before adding the dry ingredients; and use less cocoa (the original recipe called for 2 tablespoons instead of the one) so the cake wouldn't be so dark.  Vivian began adding half of a second bottle of food coloring at the end with the vanilla flavoring because two bottles made the cake too red.  White Lily flour was used because "Mrs.  Keaton, who makes the best butter pound cakes in the world, swears by it."  A church member told Vivian to separate the egg whites before adding them, which caused the mixture to become a little fluffier. Vivian also sifts the flour twice, sometimes three times, to make it airier.

Vivian's cake is ethereal and delicious; the perfect red velvet cake.

Friday, 6:00 pm

The wedding is in 24 hours. We have no wedding cake. I am sitting on the floor in my kitchen holding my head. I'm still wearing black socks and blue sandals, but that is the least of my problems. I went home at lunch today to test a theory and baked a 12" bottom tier. It failed rigorous review: it's sinking. It has no structure. The cake isn't dense enough to sustain the weight of two more tiers (six layers of cake and frosting). The bottom layer needs to be strong, Atlas, capable of holding the red velvet world on its shoulders. I seriously consider making a pound cake and coloring it red.

First Joetta calls to check in. I'm rocking back and forth but I assure her I'm fine. Amanda clicks in to see if I need help frosting the cake. I chirp that I don't, although I'm on the floor in a fetal position. I can't bring myself to tell her I don't have a cake to frost.

It's not a tragedy by any means. But it is a wedding cake and it doesn't matter if I produce great food tomorrow; it's the cake everyone's looking at and it's the cake that means the most to the bride. I really, really, really don't want to disappoint her.

I call Vanessa and explain my dilemma. "Vanessa, I have no idea what to do."

A momentary pause on the other line. Then, decisively Vanessa says: "Two words, honey. Betty Crocker."

I recoil in horror; how can I not, being the snob that I am? "No! You're kidding!"

"No, you need dense cake, Betty Crocker will do it. I mean, the rest of it will be real red velvet cake. It's just one layer, right?"

It's as if she's asked me to convert religions. I can't bring myself to look the horror of it in the eye. I'll brave lions; I can't denounce my culinary gods! Can I?

Everyone seems to sense my cosmic pain and is calling. Julie ("Dude," our mutual nickname for each other, not to be confused with Jules of the Paris trip) calls me next.

"Dude, I'm screwed!" I tell her, relating my problem and Vanessa's solution.

"Dude," she says, "She's right. If it's strong enough to hold the rest of layers of real velvet cake, what does it matter if the foundation is Betty Crocker?"

"It won't taste great!"

"How do you know? Have you ever had box mix?"

"No, but --"

"So you don't know. But Dude, it's one layer. There are eight more layers of the red velvet."

"But Dude, it's cheating!"

"Dude, it's a free wedding cake! And she's not marrying the cake!"

Sometimes, all it takes is the clarity of a simple statement. I'm such an arrogant ass. The fact is, Krista's not looking for, nor is she expecting any, miracles. The most important thing to her is Dan; it's not the food, it's not the cake, it's not the decorations at the church; all of that is incidental compared to him. So any burden I'm placing on myself is of my own making. I can do this.

At the grocery store, I'm having a Robin Williams moment from "Moscow on the Hudson." Confronted with more choices for box mix than I know what to do with, I am temporarily overwhelmed. I have no idea which one to buy. Vanessa's voice echoes: "Betty Crocker." I reach for the Betty Crocker Butter Yellow Cake...But before I can buy I feel compelled to confess. I dial Hubby. "Guess where I am?"

"Where?"

"The Betty Crocker aisle."

"O...kay."

I hang up on him. One box. I look around furtively...snatch the box, throw it in my cart, and cover it with a five pound bag of sugar. Quickly I race to the checkout line, intent on leaving before I see anyone I know.

Saturday, midnight

I am staring at the bottom tier of the wedding cake. A twelve inch round, three layers with cream cheese frosting in between them. The bottom, and thickest layer, is the Betty Crocker batter with red food coloring. Should I be concerned that it popped out of the pan as if coated with Teflon? Is it made of Teflon? I don't care; it isn't sinking under the two other layers of red velvet. A 9" tier and a 6" tier of red velvet cake are waiting to be mounted on this foundation. That will have to wait until the morning. I'm tired and I'm going to bed.

Saturday, 9:00 pm

The cake is a smooth column of ivory cream cheese frosting, two tiers high (I lost my nerve trying to put the third tier on), covered with blood red rose petals. No one looking would know the mid morning drama that resulted in the discovery that Hubby can frost cakes ("Hey! It's just like spackling!"); and that I had to lie on the kitchen floor to recover from the near heart attack of almost dropping the cake. No one knows that in the middle of finishing the decoration, a mere twenty minutes before bringing the cake out, I had a bad moment that could have been disastrous (Hubby: "Hey there, Curse-a-saurus Rex, this is a church!"). That's all irrelevant.

Dan and Krista cut their cake and the dark red layers stand out in stark contrast to the white frosting. Dan feeds her a bite; she reciprocates...then smears frosting on his cheek. He retaliates with a handful of red velvet cake in her face. Her makeup's ruined. Everyone laughs. We're all in a great mood. The cake doesn't collapse. It's a good moment. I finish pounding my glass of wine and lean back against Hubby.

"Good job, baby," he whispers.

"Baby," I whisper back, "If I ever volunteer to bake a wedding cake again, can you promise to kill me?"

"Baby, if you ever volunteer to cater an entire wedding for free again, I'll happily kill you."

And wouldn't you know it? My camera's memory card died as I was trying to take a photo of the cake. But it's a wedding -- so there are a million pictures. Hopefully someone will send me one soon so I can look at the first, last, and only wedding cake I will ever bake. Hold me to this, won't you?

Continue reading "Red Velvet Hell, Part Two" »

November 18, 2005

Red Velvet Hell

I'm afflicted with an illness that a friend has dubbed my ICDT ("I can do that!") problem. You know the phrase "Fools rush in...?" That's me. Now I'd like to think that I'd be the one lemming to curve to the right and save myself from the cliff fall, but there are moments when the ICDT issue can be problematic (the 24 hour quilt comes to mind).

I'm cooking for a friend's wedding this Saturday. As in, tomorrow. The original count was 30 people. It's since grown to 50. It also went from being a relatively casual event to a more formal event. Oh why didn't I heed the warnings in the writings of the The Food Whore? Scope creep has definitely crept in. Alas, in addition to my OCD, and my ICDT, I am also cursed with an inability to comprehend fear or self-preservation. So I'm also making the cake.

The food is on target and near completion. No emergencies. No worries. It's food. It speaks to me. My hands know what to do.

The cake. Alas.

Desserts I can make. But cake is not my milieu (except for my wedding cake, but I created it based on a family recipe that I've been making for almost 20 years). Krista's wedding colors are red and ivory so the wedding cake is supposed to be a red velvet cake with cream cheese frosting. I was going to wrap it in white chocolate modeling paper. Smooth like fondant. Not disgusting tasting like fondant.

Two months ago, I made seven recipes of red velvet cake to get to one that passed muster for lightness, airiness and fluffiness, as Southern Red Velvet Cake likes to pretend it doesn't have pounds of butter in it. I finally found one that was deemed exceptional and everything a Southern Red Velvet Cake is supposed to be. But by this point, Greg was refusing to eat any more. I should have known then, given the hell I endured finding this perfect recipe what it portented.

I baked for a three tiered cake last night. After appropriate cooling and preparation, I started to frost a crumb coat. Part way through, I stopped, went into the TV room where Hubby was busy killing Covenant forces on the X-Box, trembling and pale.

"What's wrong?" he asked, after looking at my shell-shocked expression.

I sat down on the couch, stared at him, then: "OH MY GOD! WHO THE F!@#$%^&* DO I THINK I AM? WHAT THE F!@#$%^&*( POSSESSED ME TO THINK I COULD BAKE A F!@#$%^&*(ING WEDDING CAKE?"

"Um, why can't you bake a wedding cake?"

"Go look in the kitchen."

Eyebrows rose. "It can't be that bad." He went to look. And came back. Slowly picking up his controller, he turned to me, real pity in his eyes. "Oh."

When I used this recipe previously, I didn't frost the entire cake; I only frosted one layer. So. That lightness, airiness and fluffiness? It gives the cake absolutely no structure. Which means icing, decorating and tiering the cake is nearly impossible. The cake is so moist, it sinks. If handled, it explodes into a million little red crumbs.

I went home at lunch today to try to figure out some solutions. I was so frazzled I came back to work wearing my black socks and blue house sandals.

Holy f!@#$%^& s&*().

October 01, 2005

Countdown: 49 Days

Phone conversation:

"Mom, is there a history of insanity in our family?"

"Well, there's Uncle...what? Why?"

"I've offered to host a wedding reception at our house for a friend."

"That's nice of you."

"I'm cooking for the reception, too."

"How many people?"

"Forty some people. Possibly fifty."

"That's a lot of people. That's a lot of work."

"I'm making the cake, too."

"I see. Well, if you're going to cook why not bake, too? When's the wedding?"

"It's in seven weeks.'

Pause. "I think you could be the first certifiable case for insanity in our family."

K.'s wedding is November 19.

In my inability to distinguish cheerful obliviousness & blind optimism from dementia, I move forward with plans to host and cook for the reception. I'm a huge huge fan of The Food Whore, a professional caterer, whose blog is equal parts cautionary tale and horror story (and hysterically funny, by the way). Why, after reading every single one of her posts, I continue not to run away screaming in fear is probably a testament to my peerless lack of common sense. The woman is a professional! I'm a dilettante! I have ADD! What in the hell makes me think I can do this? But my wedding was the happiest day of my life; and if I can contribute in any way to make K's wedding as special to her, then we press onward. After all, as Hubby is fond of saying, "Fortes fortuna adiuvat."

On the other hand, for those more foolhardy than bold, the wine fridge is mere steps away in the kitchen in which I will be stationed to cook. There's a good tradition in this house of drinking and cooking at large parties. For the housewarming, Jenn and I popped and downed pretty pink cans of Sofia sparkling wine. For Joetta's baby shower, Jules, Jenn and I snuck off to the laundry room to drink a bottle of champagne, like a bunch of teenagers hiding out from our parents.

The proposed menu, based on K.'s requests:

Passed Hors D'oeuvres

- Wild mushroom pomponnettes
- Pesto bruschetta and Romesco bruschetta
- Paté Chaud
- Baby bliss potatoes with Asiago soufflé

Salad

- Strawberry spinach salad with gorgonzola cheese and toasted almonds, tossed with a citrus vinaigrette

Buffet

- Honey-Balsamic Roasted Salmon
- Grilled Chicken Paillard with Marsala Cream Sauce
- Israeli couscous salad
- Caramelized onion crème fraiche mashed potatoes
- Garlic sauteed haricots verts
- Roasted fall vegetables

Dessert

- Red velvet cake

The wedding cake is red velvet cake, to go with the wedding colors of red and white. The painful thing is, I really don't like cakes -- and I've now made seven red velvet cakes in as many days. Thank God for patient friends who are willing to be taste testers. And Amanda? Bless you for offering to be my sous chef. Whether or not you know it, you'll also be my drinking buddy that night.

Oh, and I'm making the wedding invitations, too. And the week before the wedding, I'm teaching a class at our local demonstration kitchen/ gourmet store.

Have I mentioned dementia?

August 01, 2005

The Reception

Two dear friends are getting married again in November. I met them two years ago; they had dinner with Hubby and me a week before they were married in a hastily arranged and brief wedding. She wanted to be a bride, to have her dream reception. There wasn't time: not too long after their wedding, they were deployed -- she to Afghanistan, he to Iraq. In the subsequent two years of marriage, they spent a grand total of three months with each other -- not always consecutively. They're both back now and her thoughts have turned once again to the wedding of her dreams.

My wedding day was the happiest day of my life. I owed my happiness to Hubby; but the perfection of the wedding day itself was due to the collective grace under pressure of Sondra, Julie, Mom, Ellen, Anna and Marni. Sondra and I had spent months discussing aspects of the wedding, refining each detail every time we talked. So two days before the wedding, I turned all operational aspects of the wedding to Sondra. In a memorable moment recounted later over (lots of) alcohol, Sondra confessed to informing the reception site and catering staff that any problems were to be brought to her: "If the kitchen burns down and we have to go pick berries for dinner, come to me and we will take care of it! She doesn't need to know anything from this point forward!" The kitchen didn't burn down and we didn't need to pick berries. But I knew that if anything was to go wrong, Sondra was going to fix it. So unlike a lot of brides I've talked to, I actually enjoyed my wedding.

I think every bride should enjoy her wedding day, so I offered to host our friends' reception because I want her to have the party of her dreams. It's karmic payback for the fête Sondra and the girls gave me.

I love throwing parties, so the reception is taking place in our backyard. I'm also insane: I'm cooking for the event.

3 months, 18 days until the event.

I have a first draft of the menu, a few design sketches, a draft schedule, a logistics plan for the backyard, and 17 recipes for Red Velvet Cake (the wedding cake) to test.

It's rocking to me to sleep every night.